Here is a document that details the parts of proper init and comm values.
http://www.alfa145.co.uk/obd/14230-2s.pdf
Page 6 describes the header Bytes
Page 7 has the timing... looks like 20ms is the max wait time
Page 12 - something i don't understand but may be an issue later on.
Page 16 KB Values
This document talks about communication
http://www.alfa145.co.uk/obd/14230-3s.pdf
Section 4; all the good stuff
Some More documentation
http://www.koch-engineering.com/file...ISO14230-2.pdf
The exact resource I needed:
http://prj.perquin.com/obdii/