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Re: The headlights - That newer gen bumper appears to be high enough off the ground (check your local laws) that you could just install highs and lows in there, and remove the upper headlights altogether, facilitating a partial grille block and an upper aero enhancement.

There is a thread on here where someone did lights on a Honda Accord. They look kind of like the ones that you want in that picture above. I think it's in the list of mods on the links in the header.