I was able to program PIC using
MBHP and
P18. I still had to download MPLAB for exporting .asm to .hex. Of course I need to set all the required parameters too.
I ordered all the parts from Mouser and thought that I could throw in a LCD display too. Now this random 16x2 character display isn't using HD44780 controller and whole circuit draws 700mA when powered. Backlight is lit but nothing shows up on the screen. Without screen attached circuit draws something like 30mA. Maybe I should have read more carefully, hehe. Time to order correct LCD.