This should really go into both smiles and annoyances, but on balance a smile I think
I've booked Mrs A and me for a 3 night break in Paris for her Birthday in early July - thats a smile as i) she deserves it, ii) it will be a nice break, iii) she deserves it again and iv) it consumes the new car fund so Helga also stays.
Annoyance ? I sent an email to friends about it so nothing else would be scheduled for that weekend and of course included Mrs A in the group.
At least she is looking forward to it.
