One problem you are going to have is not so much the viscosity as it is the additive package. For a diff, you'll want a GL5 add-pack.
Syncromesh, Red Line MTL, Amsoil MTF and the like are GL4. I don't believe any of those are dual rated GL4/5 ... but some 75W-90s and 80W-90s are.
For really thin rear-end gear oil, I might try this stuff:
Red Line Synthetic Oil - Gear Oil for Differentials - 75W85 GL-5 Gear Oil
or:
Red Line Synthetic Oil - ShockProof® Gear Oils - Lightweight ShockProof®
The Superlight Shockproof is likely too thin for proper durability.
I think with a Miata, though, you're #1 enemy is wind resistance. I love my convertible, but it's an affront to the aero gods.