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I once had a 70 mile commute. I hated it. Around 2hrs of my life gone every day to sitting in a car in traffic. I'd consider moving again.
That is what I did... and then I got a job even closer to home after moving. I now have way more time for things that actually matter, are fun, and in general I'm just much happier with my life. No amount of super mpgs can make up for that.