I have a 3 hour roundtrip commute. I know it sucks. But didn't know it literally sucked the life out of me. There's little I can do about it. I love my job and DW works in the opposite direction. She currently has a 40 minute roundtrip commute and that is too far already.
Audiobooks and cruising along slowly in the slow lane is how I cope.
I just hate the tailgaters. Left lane is wide open. Use it and leave me alone!