God helps them whut help theyselves.
It sounds like you've got a shot. Did you look at the Jordan Peterson material on relationships? It's something you could do together and talk about.
After reading that the first time, I'd have sworn there was something about a wheelchair, but I can't find it now. Are you ambulatory? Because I was going to suggest one of those power massagers you can get for your car seat.
https://www.google.com/search?q=mass...car+seat+cover
I've had similar back problems to yours. What worked for me when I had the floor space was floor exercise
https://www.google.com/search?q=spin...floor+exercise
Now my floor is like 2x20ft. My parents swore by their
Teeter decompression Table.
Maybe he'd like you better if you weren't in pain all the time. Could you get behind that?