I tend to complain far too much, but when I have tried to get people to say nice things they go out of their way to criticize, and then claim that it is more important to be honest than nice, but they are not being honest. They are going out of their way to agitate others.
I already endure far too much honest opinions of my life. I cannot imagine caring about other peoples' opinions when I am not alive any longer.
I hardly care about them now.
[I]t's not living if you stand outside the fire.