Today I found he (youtube guy) probably reffered to a brazilian psychiatrist
Ivan Maia. The name of this psychiatrist was mentioned in the comments of the video, and I searchewd and found this psychiatric it's really wealth, so it fits. But I still need to find the video or text this psychiatrist made such insane suggestion about the father don't need to care emotionally about his kids, but just provide money and the mother take the rest.
Like I use to say :
Doctors...