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Originally Posted by slowmover
Being “non-judgmental”? The fools path
Vanity, is blinding.
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I'll offer my opinion if I think it would help, or if vanity is particularly egregious, but it's quite the subjective topic. I find women who don't shave their legs and pits to be less attractive than if they shave, and that's purely vain. Likewise, I maintain my hair length and very briefly style with a paste.
At what point would vanity be going too far? If I got highlights would that be too vain (I'd never be interested in that BTW)? If I carried around more muscle than necessary is that vanity? At what point does excess muscle constitute vanity?
We're talking about landscape design, and that's mostly vanity. I could let whatever grow and it would be fine.
My loose definition of excessive vanity is when happiness and identity are contingent on vain pursuits. Not a great definition considering everything is ultimately in vain.