pretty sweet to get a setup like that as a matter of coincidence. I just ordered the timing belt, tensioner, and water pump from here this morning:
Honda P2A P2J Timing Belt & Water Pump Kit
I'll snap some pictures of whats new laying around. Getting to the point of no return here shortly. Think I'll be getting a small engine crane soon to help things along.
Best of luck civicman, and hoping your people make a full recovery.