Well I had it all hooked up and tested it. The car cranked and cranked.... I hit the button and it ran, when I let up it shut off. Opps! I hooked my secondary relay up wrong, I had the NC contact hooked to the ground, so I was grounding out the main relay all the time. When I went to fix it I broke a pin off my relay
so the project will have to wait until I can get another one.
I will upload some pic later so you can see what I did.
You were right on which wire to snip