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Originally Posted by Xist
You seem to have strong feelings about this, do you want to discuss it further?
I keep trying to find another SLP in my preferred dating app. I started chatting with one, but she disappeared.
A programmer also disappeared.
A lady from my hometown (in California) disappeared.
Virtually everyone interesting disappears!
(if they ever match with me in the first place).
I saw an attorney and a lady I recognize from television, but did we match?
No...t yet...
I just saw Jenni, a Rad Tech, so I will let you know if I have the opportunity to ask when she became radicalized.
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You've made my point why I feel strongly.
Normal, healthy women disappear when men at our age are still living with mom. In fact, I consider it nearly a disqualifying attribute for a woman to accept a man living with mom at that age... reminds me of the half-joke I made that I wouldn't date a woman who was willing to date an ex-con. Heck, I had a girlfriend who complained that I lived with my parents, at the age of 20, fresh out of prison, while attending college. Didn't matter to her that I did more for them than they did for me at that point. Women want to see a guy doing for themselves.
We don't wait around for stars to align to deliver our ideal mate, who happens to find us ideal in whatever mess we're in; we become the person who deserves the one we desire. That usually entails either good financial means, or performing at a high level in a career... and not living with mom. Women need to visualize living independently, not with their biggest rival.
... and finally, I suggested that career to my friend who is the female version of your personality. Just scraping by and has story after story of calamity, yet is well situated to achieve whatever she wants. Gorgeous, but only occasionally meets deceptive men. Is either clueless or self-sabotaging of attracting men she might like.