DPV, here's a real world example. When I get to the end of my very urban street in the morning I have to turn left. It's a busy 4 lane street with non-stop rush hour traffic heading the opposite way into Toronto. There's a bridge less than 100 meters to the left. It's being rebuilt, so half the bridge is closed. That means that there is a traffic jam on the other side of the bridge and therefore practically no gaps in traffic. I have to squirt through that gap with the kids. There were many mornings this past winter that I had to do that starting off on slush or ice. Our street tends to get plowed after every other street. I really liked having the AWD for this. My previous van was a RWD Aerostar and it would have been hell this past winter, to even turn right and then start cutting over to loop around and go back the other way.
Anyway, if you have to squirt through a short gap in traffic, AWD helps. Personally, I'd rather that we
all move around in 1000 pound or less rigs with a single rear driven wheel that top out at 50 kph max, but that's not gonna happen any time soon.
Normally, I'd have never bought an AWD vehicle. They cost more, have way more maintenance costs down the line, waste fuel and resources, and typically don't really let you go anywhere you wouldn't normally be able to go with 2wd. I had a week to replace a written off vehicle and with more time would have gone used. The Vibe and the Santa Fe ended up as options that fit fairly well, I'm very tall, and that could fit kids bikes (they don't fit in the Accord's trunk without wheel removal and there are no quick releases) or my bikes (65cm frame size) and had attractive pricing and financing.
I actually agreed to purchase a 2.7L FWD model of the Santa Fe, but over the course of the weekend read how the real world mileage wasn't that good (high revving 4A vs 5A) and that the timing belt was super expensive (I keep vehicles a long time) and that wouldn't be need on the 3.3L. We test drove the 3.3L FWD that Saturday and it was raining. Pulling away from a traffic light caused the traction control to engage because of how slippery the paint on the stop line was. I hated that hammering and also hated the FWD's push through turns. The mileage ratings on the FWD and AWD models were practically the same so I bit the bullet (a whoppingl $7 a week) and got the AWD. I did that without knowing that the bridge would be rebuilt just weeks later or that we'd have more snow accumulation than we have ever had. But I did know how drama-free AWD can be and opted for it, and that with my luck I'd get it and gas would go sky-rocketing upwards.
It's $4.46 a gallon here now.